A large percentage of us don’t really understand that there is a broad difference between sex and love making. There have been series of agreements and disagreements in this respect.
Love making should not be restricted to married couples alone because there are lots of married couples who don’t even understand what love making is and how it’s been achieved.
Sex and love making aren’t the same because the feel, explorations and connections aren’t the same. It takes a mature individual to differentiate both and how there work. Sex is for kids while love making is for the mature.
Love making is motivated by love, commitment, affection, genuineness, unconditionality, empathy and selflessness. Love making isn’t “eat and go”, it’s not selfish, it’s not sided, it’s not backed by conditions, it’s not the popular “kiss and tell”. In fact, love making doesn’t have a definite formulae.
When two beings are deeply involved, their chemistry, vibe and energies automatically connect.
During love making, the exploration of sexuality goes beyond the normal, at this point anything is possible because the soul and body are in coherence. Love making involved a deep spiritual encounter which involved the soul. Love making involves the investment of your everything possible, the attainment of orgasm is easier at this point, communication are easier, romance is fun, the excitement are free flowing because you’re free and your heart is open to your partner.
When it comes to love making, there are series of deep intimacy involved, both party travels to another realm, the feeling is beyond anything an individual can explain because you’re lost in the process, you’re no longer yourself, everything becomes so effortless and your vulnerability is increased without care.
Love making is deep.
The connection transcends the physical, the genuineness of both party can be seen in their eye, their commitment, hearts, bodies and souls are in total sync. Love making is a blessing and brings out the best in both partners,
Love making makes you glow, love making comes with health benefits that medical sciences can not develop in the lap. Love making is bounding, love making creates a forgiving and reconciliatory spirit, love making is another great way to exhibit our commitment and unconditional love towards our partner.
Sex on the other hand is something anybody anywhere can get even without stress. Sex has gradually become one of the cheapest and easiest commodity on the surface of the earth. It’s actually easier to get sex these days as it has been commercialized in certain parts of the world.
Sex is motivated by selfishness, greed, falseness and insensitivity. Have you ever wondered why a man will meet a lady today and do everything within his capacity to have sex with that lady? The reason is that the flesh needs to be attended to by all means and the major motivation isn’t to have a deep intimate connection but just to satisfy that lustful part of him which has been begging for attention, which is the major reasons why most people break up in their relationship after sex because there’s nothing else to achieve or be motivated by.
Sex can be initiated without emotion, sex can happen anytime, two people who just meet can decide to have sex based on infatuation or lust, sex can be had on the first date. One night stand isn’t equally out of the equation.
There’s no such thing as deeper and emotional connection in sex. It’s just an exercise carried out just to satisfied that lustful part of our being. Sex is done in a haste without respect to commitment and feelings of who’s involved.
Anyone who has been deeply involved in love making would never want to just have sex because it’s empty and doesn’t connect that part of us that makes us unique.
Sex and love making can never be placed on the same scale in terms of comparison because the difference is clear.